How to Get Your Groom Involved in Wedding Planning
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Have you spent hours as a little girl planning out that perfect wedding, perhaps even building a scrapbook with magazine photos and gown cut-outs? What girl hasn’t dreamed of that special day, envisioning her soul mate, their first dance, and all the family members sharing the happiness with them? Well, not every boy does the same, which is no surprise, but if your groom still has that boyish attitude of not being “all in” when it comes to planning, perhaps there’s something you can do to inspire him.
Sometimes, very little can help you achieve very much with your spouse-to-be, if you play your cards right, so to speak. With a bit of encouragement and a few clever gadgets, you can transform what he sees as a dull-fest into a fun, exciting adventure you both should take part in! Here are a few ideas to try out and help him find joy in the planning process.
Get some hands-on participation
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Many grooms already have some of their own ideas about their ideal wedding day. Others could use some time to think it all through, and that’s your chance to have a few relaxed, no-pressure conversations to see what he envisions when he thinks of your wedding day. Many guys are crafty, so they might enjoy creating something unique to commemorate the occasion and contribute in an original way, be it a website, the invitations (or e-vites), or something entirely else.
On the other hand, make sure you respect his boundaries. Maybe he’d like to let you handle something that’s not his cup of tea, and it would help de-stress the planning process for him, too. Delegate wisely, and ask him what he finds the most inspiring, so that you can work out a schedule that makes sense for both of you.
Let him budget with you
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Savvy brides know that it’s tough to plan an affordable wedding, especially if you want to bring all those childhood ideas to life. However, your groom will likely be able to help you plan out this wonderful event without skimping on the most important elements, so you can let him lead the way through the budget for your wedding.
If he’s in love with tech, he can even use a handy app such as WeddingHappy to coordinate all the vital elements and figure out the smartest way to handle spending. It’s a superb way to help keep you on the right track, and he’ll appreciate having ample control over the situation.
Networking as his strong suit
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Grooms are often well-organized and they’ll be able to keep their interactions streamlined and effective, so why not make use of those qualities and ask him to help you communicate with photographers, decorating experts, venue owners, and the like.
All those people will give you a business card to stay in touch if you choose them, so your groom could use a sleek card holder wallet to store all his wedding-related contacts in one place. This simple accessory will help him keep things under control, and he’ll be involved in the selection process as much as he finds it enjoyable.
Go meal-tasting together
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Some men like the hands-on take on things, as we’ve mentioned before, so perhaps choosing your wedding menu can be both fun and productive with your groom. For starters, he can use a simple planner to keep track of all the catering companies you’ve contacted and whose food you’ve had a chance to taste. Now that’s something he’s bound to love: trying out tasty delicacies to enjoy his wedding even more!
Banish all tension and negativity
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Stress is a natural part of the planning process, but it’s not always good for keeping that positive energy flowing with your spouse-to-be. To prevent any tension, try to take a light-hearted approach towards the situation. If there’s a mix-up with the ordering, joke about it together, laugh it off – it’s the best way to stay positive and resolve issues on the go.
Tailor-made suits to make you swoon
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If you already know what kind of a gown you want for your wedding, as most brides do, it’s a good idea to get your groom to pick a matching tuxedo for the occasion. It doesn’t necessarily have to match in colour, but you should aim for the same style. So, if you have a vintage-looking gown, it’s a great idea if your groom will enjoy a retro take on his tux, too.
This is a brilliant opportunity for him to express his style preferences, so who knows, you might even want to adapt your gown and accessories of choice to his look, and create the perfect wedding ensemble for both.
As you’re about to start this new chapter together, you might as well have fun preparing for it together. So, use these simple suggestions to motivate your hubby, and he’ll surely be happy to contribute and to share his thoughts. Have fun, make the most of this excitement and anticipation, and bond with your future husband while you prep for your special day!
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